Monday, December 29, 2008
It has been a long Christmas break....
Tuesday, December 23, 2008
Do they really have to grow up??
Wednesday, December 17, 2008
Anthony and is (ahem) ornament
He seemed very proud of himself, as he had found such a unique place to hang his very favorite ornament.
He left it there until it proceeded to fall off (when he decided to try and walk around the house with it on). He simply picked up his ornament and placed it back on the tree.
Where it belonged.Monday, December 15, 2008
Oh the holiday parties...peppered with lots and lots of pictures for your enjoyment
Ron opened his gift next, which both him and Diane were excited about - wine. Not just any wine, but sulfate/sulfite?? free wine. Not sure which one is correct - I know there was some argument about this at the party. :) No big deal either way, I just think Ron was happy to get a bottle of wine he could enjoy.
Pete's gift from Ron and Diane was a nice one - a bottle of Margarita mix which Diane explained was for making Margarita bars. Pete asked if he could just make drinks with it which Diane said would be alright. :)
Many other gifts were exchanged, but I did not get a picture of all of them.... I am a bit dissapointed I do not have a picture of Deb's lovely snowman she received from Ron and Diane. I learned something new about my friend Deb - she loves snowmen. I guess I never knew this about her until I noticed her many shelves in her basement filled with snowmen, lots and lots of snowmen. :)
It was a fun evening and we would have loved to stay longer, but the kids were beginning to melt down. We also needed to get home and get some sleep as we had a long day ahead of us with our family holiday party over here the next day.
Party #2.....I was a little apprehensive about this party as I was not sure how it would go seeing that my whole family had not been together for over 7 years. Let's just say we all have not gotten along well over the years (not sure why exactly), but we haven't. Because of this, everyone has pretty much steered clear of eachother. Well, I decided that 7 years was way too long, and this family "feud" was getting ridiculous, so I decided to organize this family get together. It seemed like such a good idea from the get go, but as the party time approached yesterday I found myself getting a bit nervous. I was hoping nothing "Jerry Springerish" would go down. You never know if someone would start something, bring up old arguments, etc. If this happened a fight could break out. No, not a fist fight, but a verbal, yelling type fight. Alright, I have a very active imagination, I know the chances of that happening were slim to none, but still, it was a thought that was in the back of my mind.
Anyway, my worries were all for nothing as the party was a great success. Everyone caught up on eachothers lives....
Had some cocktails, which made conversation flow a bit better.... (always amazing how that works)
The kids played really well together - they were loving the video games which my sister loved (anti -t.v., video game woman) gotta love her. But who could complain as they were kept busy, which was really nice as it made it easy for us adults to catch up...
I don't think Pat knew what he got himself into, as once he started playing with Anthony, Anthony would not leave him alone!!
What a great weekend full of great Holiday parties, spent with great family and friends who I love so very, very much. Times like these remind my of how truly blessed I am to have all of these people in my life.
Tuesday, December 9, 2008
Daily prayer helps
Anthony: "I want to play Noggin"
Mom: "No, I am busy, sorry. I think it is time for you to go to bed."
Anthony: "NOOOOOO!!!"
Anthony: " I WANT TO PLAY NOGGIN!"
Mommy: "I said NO!"
Yes, this was the dialogue between my two year old and myself tonight - believe it or not. He ended up not getting to play Noggin even though he was quite persistent. This whole ordeal tuckered him out so I put him to bed, which was much needed. He is now sleeping soundly... hopefully he will feel refreshed in the morning.
Sweet Dreams my Anthony Thomas....
Thursday, December 4, 2008
You take the good, you take the bad...
Good: Olivia just started eating solid foods, peas of all things, and she just loves them. This is amazing to me as none of my other kids would even touch peas. I am pretty sure it is because I made the mistake of starting them on the good stuff - you know, bananas, peaches, pears, etc. So when it came time to introduce them to the green beans, peas and other veggies they would spit them out over and over again. Well "Duh"...why did I not start out with the yucky stuff first, then they would not any different?? I guess sometimes it takes a while to figure stuff like this out, 4 kids later, I have finally figured it out! "Good thing."
I guess I unexpectedly took something away from watching all of those episodes of The Fact's of life in the 80's - "you take the good, you take the bad, you take them both and there you have the facts of life."
Sunday, November 30, 2008
Breakfast with Santa
Friday, November 28, 2008
A day late..
So it is the day after Thanksgiving and here I am writing what I wanted to write, and post yesterday on the actual day of Thanksgiving - Yesterday was just too crazy of a day to get it accomplished. As I am sitting her typing this I am finding today may just be too crazy of a day as well. Anthony is laying on the couch yelling "Mommy, I want that!!" to every toy commercial that comes on. Ava and Lucas are wrestling each other on the carpet (just waiting for someone to get hurt), and Olivia is crying in her carseat as she is waaay over tired. Days like this are pretty normal around the Shelton household, so I guess I should succumb to the fact that this is just how it is going to be for the next 15 years. Wow, that sounds a bit overwhelming to say the least -- 15 years of all of "this"?? It guess it is all worth it though..... Alright, I am rambling and getting off course here - that seems to happen a lot with me.
Now, back to the point of this whole post. Thanksgiving. Oh it was a wonderful day. A day filled with turkey, potatoes, stuffing, loafing around on the couch, pie, more turkey, etc. In a nut shell - over eating. I love it though, and it seems like for some reason everyone gets a free pass on Thanksgiving to stuff themselves silly without having to feel bad about it.
The kids had a great time playing at grandma and papa's house, and hanging out with their new cousin Lucia (pictured above). I was sort of amazed at how interested Anthony and Lucas were in her - like they had never seen a baby before, or at least not for a long time. This is funny as they have a baby sister that is only two months younger than Lucia. Hmmm... Anyway, they had a great time and were kept occupied the whole day which was very nice for Brian and I as it gave us all the time in the world to lay around, eat, and do nothing. Here I am rambling again... So to sum it up, it was a wonderful Thanksgiving, filled with wonderful food, and spent with wonderful family.
Anywhoo, I thought it only appropriate seeing it is (was - a day late - oops) Thanksgiving to count all my blessings and think about all I am thankful for.
1. I am thankful for my wonderful husband
2. I am thankful for my 4 beautiful children
3. I am thankful that Brian loves, and is incredibly passionate about running the family business. Without his passion the business would not be where it is today
4. I am thankful that Brian works as hard as he does ( I know, sometimes - O.K. a lot of times I complain he is gone waaaay too much) so that I am able to stay at home with our kids
5. I am thankful that we are all healthy
6. I am thankful for Grandma Diane and Papa Ron for taking my kids every Tuesday so that I can have a day for "me". The best thing ever!!!
7. I am thankful for my mom - for raising me in a home filled with warmth and love. I only hope I can raise my children half as well as she did
The list is really endless. I am just so very, very, very thankful to have all that I have.
Now that I have listed all the many things I am thankful for, I thought it only fit to list what the kids are thankful for this Thanksgiving....
Ava: "the tree's." Simple, but nice.
Lucas: "my booty" hmmm...always has to be silly. I asked him for a better answer (as I felt his butt was not something to be all that thankful for.) To which he responded, " I am thankful for my family mommy." Much better.
Anthony: "I am thankful for pizza." - which does not surprise me one little bit as it is his favorite food of all time.
What a great Thanksgiving this was....but there is no more time to reflect as it is now time to gear up for Christmas!! Decorating, Christmas shopping, parties.....
Thursday, November 20, 2008
These little wonders
Thursday, November 13, 2008
Worry is my middle name
Sunday, November 9, 2008
Dad
As I was laying on my bed nursing my beautiful daughter Olivia Grace, it came to mind that he has yet to meet her, in fact, I believe he has only met Ava, Lucas and Anthony a few times - sad. The picture above is from the day Lucas was born, one of the two times he has met my little Lucas. I have been thinking about calling him for months and have not actually gone through with it as it seems the conversation is always so strained and hard to keep going. But today I decided to pick up the phone and call him. He answered - I said "Hi Dad" silence on the other end of the line. I said "It's Maria". He said, "Oh...Maria, Hi." I proceeded to talk about how long it has been since we have talked or seen eachother, and he agreed. He said to me "I am so sorry honey, it is all my fault." I have never heard him take on any responsibilty for the disolution of our relationship, so this really shocked me - I did not know what to say... I just mentioned that it was both of our faults and that we need to work on getting things on track. I asked how work was, how Tracey was, and a few other odds and ends but was getting one word responses from him. I am sure this was due to the fact that he was extremely intoxicated, trying his best to put coherent sentences together to carry on a conversation with me. I thought it would be a good time to end the conversation, so I told him to call me soon so we could get together. He agreed - I told him I loved him and would talk soon. As I hung up the phone I cried as I was sure I would not hear from him - either because he would not remember the conversation, or he would be too ashamed to make the call after speaking to me being so intoxicated.
This all made me sad for him, and for me.... Sad that his drinking was the catalyst to all of this- my mother leaving him, and his inability to spend time with us when we were young children, which in turn got us to where we are today, not a part of eachothers lives. He has missed so much... the births of my four beautiful children, baptims, birthday parties - all of the wonderful little moments that should be enjoyed by grandparents. They do not know their own grandpa, and sadly I do not believe they ever really will.
I am in awe that after all of this, all the sadness, pain, and heartache, that he is not able to quit drinking, or try to quit drinking. I am not angry though, I forgive him for everything - all he has done and not done throught my lifetime as my Dad. I have learned that it is of no value to hang on to anger, it only festers and builds and makes you into someone you would rather not be. I have learned to accept my Dad for who he is, an alchohlic who does the best he knows how to. I love him, and always will.
Wednesday, November 5, 2008
It was a momentous occasion
After the excitement of actually losing the tooth wore off she started to ask questions about how much money the tooth fairy was going to leave her. Just the other day our neighbor Tyler (who is 6) came running outside yelling "I got $5 whole dollars from the tooth fairy!!" I looked at his mom and proceeded to ask if the tooth fairy had gotten a pay raise or something - geeze, $5??? Or am I just cheap?? I remember when the tooth fairy came to my house she left a few quarters, I know it was a long time ago, but has the price per tooth really gone up that much or was my mom just cheap too?
Anyway, she went to sleep last night with her tooth under her pillow and so full of excitement I was not sure if she would actually go to sleep. Early this morning - way to early this morning - 4:45am to be exact, Ava came running into my room yelling, "mommy, mommy, guess how much money's the tooth fairy left me.... 5 dollars!!" Too cute. :)
Thursday, October 30, 2008
Just one more piece..
So we went trick or treating at Boutwell's Landing last night. For those of you that do not know, this is an "old folks" home that does an annual trick or treating night where the people who live there hand treats out to the kids. The kids love it as it is another chance for them to dress up in their costumes and fill up their treat bags with junk food. I don't like it as much as it is just more candy in the house that has to slowly "disappear"when the kids are sleeping. If I don't do this it would all be in their tummies in a matter of days, which in turn makes for bad poops, and even possibly vomit - ugh (this has been the case in past Halloweens.)
Anyway, Anthony was apparently on to my plan early this morning (7:30am) as I came downstairs to find him on his couch with his whole bag of candy dumped out around him. When he saw me he said with a smile, "just one more piece mommy." I proceeded to let him as I figured it was already too late to save him from a tummy ache - the picture above does not tell all - you should have seen all the empty candywrappers on the carpet. Got to love my Anthony Thomas!
Wednesday, October 29, 2008
Here goes!!
I began reading their blogs after I heard about the terrible plane crash that Stephanie and her husband Christian were in. (their blogs are posted on the left hand side of my page if you have not heard their story and would like to - nie -nie and cjanerun). I don't even know these people but found myself immediately drawn to the story of their lives - what amazing people.
I loved how Stephanie created this blog as a place to write about her marriage, family, and day to day life for her children to someday read. I loved it so much that I decided it was time for me to do the very same thing, and start my own. A perfect place for me to recount my daily adventures as a stay at home mom. I figure I will have plenty to write about as we have four kids ALL under the age of 6!
Ava, Lucas, Anthony and Olivia - this is all for you!!
Mommy loves....